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Change Your Perception, Change Your Life

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One of the greatest magical tools we possess as humans is our perception—the ability to create, change, and reshape the way we see the world.

Perception defines how an experience influences you and determines how it unfolds. It is never about your circumstances; it is always about how you perceive those circumstances. By choosing how you see things, you are actively creating your reality.


If we examine common situations people face daily, we can see how changing one’s perception transforms the experience entirely. For instance, being cheated on is an unpleasant experience many of us encounter. Yet, few choose to perceive it as an empowering situation rather than a tragedy. Typically, someone will blame themselves and the other person, harbor feelings of hatred, and feel betrayed. They often fail to consider the new possibilities this situation could bring into their lives.


Of course, it’s natural and healthy to take time to process feelings of betrayal and accept the truth—otherwise, we risk living in denial. However, this should be a temporary phase, not a permanent state. By recognizing it as merely an experience, we allow ourselves to move on and remain open to new opportunities.


It is crucial not to identify with the challenges we face because we are not defined by them—unless we choose to believe we are powerless. The truth, however, is the opposite: you are the creator of your life.

Take the example of being cheated on again. After processing the pain and moving forward, a person opens themselves up to learn from the experience. They might see it as a blessing, an opportunity to grow, and a reminder to choose wisely the people they allow into their lives. Letting go and moving forward becomes a powerful act of self-empowerment.


This is the transformative power of choosing our perception—it changes the course of our lives. If you perceive all experiences (pleasant or unpleasant) with an open heart and mind, you create magic and greatness from them. On the other hand, perceiving life with a rigid, narrow-minded, and victimized mindset traps you in a loop that could last years—or even a lifetime.


Which way of perceiving things will you choose?


By:

Athena Demeter

29/12/2024


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